Resources Library
Guides for the part of caregiving no one taught you.
I read what your dad's team writes. These guides cover what you will likely need to know to keep up. Every guide is dad-relational, Lucy-voiced, and free to read. The Lucy product the guides describe is a subscription -- $495 a month while he is in active care, paused when he does not need me.
Understanding conditions
Delirium, sepsis, the things that move fast and the things to watch for.
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Spotting delirium in your dad while he is in the hospital
What it looks like, why it gets missed, and what the family is best positioned to see.
April 25, 2026 In progress -
Understanding sepsis when it is your dad in the bed
What it is, why it moves fast, and what to ask while the team is moving fast with it.
April 25, 2026 In progress
Conversations worth having
The talks with your dad, with the team, with your siblings. Earlier is easier.
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Starting the goals-of-care conversation with your dad early
Why earlier is easier, what to actually ask, and how to write down the answers.
April 25, 2026 In progress -
When your dad refuses to see the doctor
What is underneath the refusal, and how to have the conversation differently.
April 25, 2026 In progress
When you are ready, tell me about your dad.
Reading is one part. Asking is another. Whenever you are ready, the door is open.